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The Luck of the Draw, Maybe

"Enjoy yourself now!" the father said to his son.
"When you grow up its just going to be work."

I did a silent, inside groan.  Poor kid!
His dad was training him to dread becoming an adult,
to dread work; to become like his Dad.  

I suppose the father just wanted to tell his son to enjoy being a boy,
but given his morose tone, even that could not have worked.  

It certainly is the case that a lot of people are trapped in their jobs,
and that a lot of jobs are drudgery.  Perhaps he had such a job.  
I have been one of the lucky ones, having had interesting work,
and it might be luck more than my own attitude,
but it was all I could do not to tell that boy that work--a job--
can be a wonderful experience, and that he should do his damnedest
to aim for something that really interested him.

He should, at least, try!

Instead, for once in my life, I said nothing.  But it is nagging me.

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